New York Divorce Mediation Lawyers

Providing Matrimonial Mediation Services in Long Island and Metro New York

Divorce mediation in New York is an alternative dispute resolution process that encourages divorcing couples to reach amicable agreements regarding their separation terms. It can be used to resolve issues such as child custody, visitation rights, division of marital assets, child support, and spousal support. 

If you are interested in mediation or have been ordered by a court to pursue presumptive mediation to settle your divorce, we encourage you to contact Schlissel Ostrow Karabatos (SOK) today. Our attorneys are experienced in both matrimonial mediation and litigation. We can evaluate your case and help you determine the best approach for protecting your interests. 

Call (516) 877-8000 to discuss your case with our divorce mediation lawyers.

Understanding the Mediation Process in New York

In the state of New York, a court will not grant a Certificate of Dissolution of Marriage until you and your soon-to-be former spouse resolve any disagreements regarding separation terms. Traditionally, spouses litigate disputes in court, but it’s becoming increasingly common for them to pursue matrimonial or divorce mediation. Over the past several years, courts across the state have even begun to order spouses to attempt mediation before reaching the courtroom. This process is known as “presumptive mediation.” 

Our Nassau County mediation attorneys have been involved in all phases of the legal process, as personal lawyers and as mediators. So, we understand its benefits, limitations, and complexities. It is a structured process conducted over several sessions with a third-party mediator facilitating communication between both sides. The mediator is not there to benefit one party over the other. The mediator is there to set the agenda, ensure legality, and maintain an environment conducive to cooperation. Mediators can call off the process if they believe discussions are counterproductive. 

Should You Consider Divorce Mediation? 

Although it’s not appropriate for every situation, there are clear benefits to mediation over traditional divorce-court proceedings. For one, it is often much faster, cost efficient, and less stressful for spouses who are willing and able to negotiate with one another. Additionally, spouses and mediators can coordinate with personal attorneys, mental health experts, financial advisors, and other professionals to negotiate even the most complicated topics.

Furthermore, mediation allows both parties to have greater input in the outcome of their divorce, which can help reduce animosity between them. In our experience, mediation is especially valuable for children, who often suffer the most when contested divorces reach the courtroom. 

Recognized Divorce Mediation Attorneys in New York

When you work with SOK, you are partnering with a widely respected and recognized family law firm. Our attorneys include five fellows of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, a former President of the Nassau County Bar Association, and two Diplomates of the American College of Family Trial. These qualifications attest to the standard of legal service that we strive to provide for each of our clients. 

We know the separation process is difficult, stressful, and highly emotional. Our team works closely with clients to craft creative and innovative legal solutions for their specific circumstances, even if they have complex financial or custodial situations. You can trust that SOK will guide you through negotiations with respect, confidence, and compassion. 

If you are ready to begin the matrimonial mediation process, contact our office online or call (516) 877-8000.